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Traditional Baby Shower or Baby Shower Tea?
by Donna Gorenflo
Baby showers have come to be an extremely important affair in a soon to be
mommy's lifetime. A baby shower is a wonderful way for the families and close friends of the
expectant mom to display her how excited they are for her. Another option to your traditional baby shower is the baby shower tea. This is a more formal affair which
provides the new mom and party guests a different way to have fun.
When holding more classic showers, invitations can be
pretty informal. From time to time shower invitations are communicated through word of mouth. Showers usually involve intimate friends and family, so they can often tell
each other when they should arrive. A baby shower tea, however, is best served when giving out
proper announcements that display a lot more formality. The goal isn't to make the
baby shower tea feel pretentious, instead helping to establish a more formal
feeling for the whole event. Also, the total number of people invited should be
smaller. When holding a traditional shower the hostess generally chooses to ask a large number of
guests since large groups tend to work wonderfully with typical
shower games and activities. On the other hand, a baby shower tea would be best served with a small number of guests. Typically, you don't want any more guests at a baby shower tea
than can sit at one small table together. The key is intimacy, and games are not typically played.
A traditional baby shower can be held almost anywhere. Most often the
baby shower is in a house of the hostess, although they also take place in a simple hang-out-spot, restaurant, or a hall. The locale needs to be based on what the expectant mother wants, so if she happens to have a favorite hang out or restaurant that could be the perfect spot. A baby shower tea, however, needs to be held in a quiet location. Most often this will mean in a private home, but the celebration can also be held in a tea room. The decoration of the party location should be elegant and formal, but that
doesn't mean the baby shower needs to be ostentatious or that a house needs servants to be appropriate.
Baby showers can be held at nearly any time of day but
they are generally on the weekend or at night since most guests work on weekdays. Perhaps if no one on your guest list is working during the daytime, the baby shower can be held while the kids are at school. A baby shower tea is most appropriately held during the afternoon, because the afternoon is the most fitting time for tea. However, some may choose to hold the baby shower late in the morning. During a baby shower, almost any food may be served, but
at a baby shower tea, the appropriate choice is scones and tea sandwiches. Presents and
shower favors
are usually a very big part of a classic shower, but at a baby shower tea, gifts need not be exchanged and party favors should either be relevant to the tea party or cut out. it's rather common nowdays for some baby showers to include the the expectant father and sometimes the
guests give gifts for the dad to be, but at a baby shower tea the company should only be women.
Each celebration of an upcoming birth has good and bad points,
but a mother to be can have both forms if she wants. Celebrating the birth of a child can be a wonderful event. Whether you gather family and friends for a traditional baby shower party or a formal
baby shower tea,
you can not go awry when you just make it personal, memorable and distinctively yours!
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